Dear Abby.or (Todd),  I have been dating a woman for about 6 months now, and she really wants to meet my family. The problem is that my sister is strung out on crack, my older brother just got out of jail for murder, and my younger brother is a concrete pump operator. My question is , should i tell her or let her meet my younger brother the concrete pump operator???  Please help me

                               Your Friend,

                               Plugged up Tight.

So sorry there 63. I have many of the same problems. If you get some good ideas let me know.

ps

this "ANSWER GRAPE" stuff is straight from ole Todd. As for me, I have as many questions as answers.  ;~)